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龙切尔真的挺恶心的，看到有推特网友说看到他变得越漂亮就越恶心，对ぺこちゃん就越尊敬，我疯狂地同意
牺牲ぺこ的身体满足自己做精致美丽“女人”的欲望，这种自私自利的本质真的很男，这一点是不会变的😅

URL: https://wxw.moe/users/mostinfinity/statuses/110170876718767988

真的不理解老钟人为什么执迷不悟地要让棒子在同人文里军训，棒子还需要军训吗，直接打包入伍了，还搁你这国防教育呢？

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I've had some advice about rings for young men spread across a few posts, but it's worth consolidating into an effortpost.

1. A ring is not an investment. New cars lose half their value when they drive off the lot: jewelry will lose even more.

Unless you are purchasing some investment-grade rock, where the price after hours of fighting still works out to $30,000+, you don't have a stone that's rare. It has very little value in the competitive market – especially in your hands.

If the day comes to scrap the ring, it's very unlikely anyone will ever care about anything other than the metal. People are upset when I tell them the diamond they had appraised at $6,000 only costs me $1,500 to buy. Why should I buy theirs? I don’t even want a diamond!

2. A diamond is not forever. They crack as easily as 25¢ quartz. The only thing that makes a diamond special is it's resistant to scratching and has a high refractive index, meaning it sparkles better when cut flatter.

Diamonds routinely break by being struck on the girdle (line separating the top and the bottom, where it is set). It happens bumping into a supermarket checkout, a cart, hitting the porcelain sink, and all kinds of ways.

If you want to protect a stone, bezel set it. Everything was bezel set before 150 years ago. It costs a teeny bit more in metal but avoids all the hazards of side damage and lost stones. You lose a little light but gain peace of mind.

3. With that out of the way, consider a different stone. You can do a lot of nice things with color gems on a smaller budget. And a smaller cost means you will be less pressured to get into the jewelry insurance scam.

The average wedding ring can be purchased three times over during the course of a marriage for what people pay in jewelry insurance.

4. Never buy off the shelf. A pre-made ring has far more loaded onto the cost. You have the store's profit, the salesperson's commission, the profit of the design house, their sales rep, the gem broker, the gold broker, and the casting house. At least.

There often is little room to negotiate because some of the design companies pursue legal action against jewelers who go under the MSRP.

Buy the stone you want to see her wearing.

Go to a gem show if you want the best price. Never order from eBay sellers in India unless you plan on having me recut it. There are cutters on Etsy who can get you a bomb-ass American cut and American mined sapphire for $500 or less.

Once you have the stone, have it set. Find a local jeweler who is an actual bench jeweler, not a retailer under the Sterling-Signet brand. Who is under that brand? Anyone you have ever seen advertised:

- Blue Nile
- Belden
- Ernest Jones
- Goodman
- H. Samuel
- James Allen
- Jared
- JB Robinson
- Kay
- LeRoy's
- Leslie Davis
- Mappins
- Marks & Morgan Jewelers
- Osterman
- Peoples Jewellers
- Rogers
- Shaw's
- Weisfield
- Zales

Your local guy can either hook you up with custom wax or get a pre-made setting you like and set the stone according to your budget.

It doesn't cost much unless you do something stupid like surround the entire band in tiny diamonds so she has a million prongs poking her fingers and you are forever paying as stones fall out.

5. Don't do novelty metals. They are all going to be a nightmare as you go through life and accidents happen.

Those cool inlay rings you see? They are all held together with super glue and will fall apart when exposed to years of showers, dish soap, and a couple spilled shots of whiskey. It's in the fine print. And you can never resize them.

That titanium or tungsten band is going to be a problem when the fire department is called to the hospital. I’ve personally had to train emergency staff on how to saw through these metals with a Dremel and carbide tools because the doctor wanted to deglove someone’s finger, destroy their nerves, and leave them with Frankenstein scars when the firemen failed.

Palladium looks cool until the ring shatters from repeat contact with chlorine at the pool.

Just get silver, gold, or platinum. Everyone knows what to do with them and has the tools.

6. White gold, especially 14K white, is a money pit to pay for rhodium plating. Rhodium is at $8,750 an ounce right now, and a jar of plating solution is a $35,000 investment for a jewelry shop. Think about the cost in 10 or 20 years.

18K and platinum are about the same price, and are only a slight one-time premium. They pay for themselves within five years, and the metal holds more value.

7. If she says yes but starts complaining about the ring you picked a few weeks later, drop the bitch.

You have a fundamental mismatch in aesthetics. Even worse, she is extremely vulnerable to social pressure. That's dangerous these days. She'll probably try and trans your kids.

The shit test of the engagement goes both ways. If she loves the thought you put into the ring and loves that it came from you, you should have a long and happy future together.

Good luck out there!

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@fatelab
求签
我和Agnes已经聊到未来孩子（她生，她说她想生个女孩子，我大概未来的role是孩子的阿姨。是两个朋友一起养孩子的关系）如果是性别认知障碍怎么办，如果执意要回中国寻根怎么办，如果被猥琐国男骗过去了怎么办
我觉得我们两个女生在瑞士生活就挺好的。一没有战乱二交通发达。然后我们日常的亲子活动已经规划好了大概是去靶场练枪+滑雪爬山！其中一个不是很想去瑞士的原因是因为Nikita 也想去瑞士😅
虽然八字都还没有一撇，但是这种和朋友住在一起的氛围真好。如果平行宇宙理论存在的话，我希望起码有一个我的结局是和朋友住在一起然后抚养生理性别为女的小孩（无法接受男孩…
还有！！！我和Agnes都希望乌克兰赢！！！虽然润出ccp的魔爪了，但是未来美好的新式家庭生活还是有可能被俄畜打破的！！！所以俄畜发射太空吧谢谢！！！！

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@friend
想找玩联机游戏的友友 T^T
如果还找不到就....算了吧

我目前的游戏平台：Switch、PS5、Steam（大型游戏玩不了！ T^T）

想玩的联机游戏：a way out\人成行\Untitled Goose Game\饥荒\人类一败涂地\Overcooked等等等等 （或者你有任何推荐的联机游戏也可以推荐捏！）

关于我：虽然不想用面包体定义自己...如果能通过面包体让你能了解我的话，我是infp。比较容易自卑、游戏也比较菜菜...（还有什么需要了解的，性格这块可以问我，只要不是冒犯的话...）

希望你：生理性别为女性，不是宏大叙事观、不是社会主义核心价值观那类人，能在游戏过程中彼此鼓励，不过分追求成就和游戏成绩 （如果你也喜欢猫，我会经常分享皮皮给你玩 :）

（东八区）日常有空的时间为：工作日晚上（有工作、有网课除外）周末的下午或晚上

那么请多多指教 o(TωT)o 

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@biplayground 反对。人本来就该乐于分享。

URL: https://bgme.me/users/ahuroom/statuses/110298264812272601

浆浆宝画的太美了根本看不出来是男棒子

URL: https://bgme.me/users/nanxuan/statuses/110296810594783764

@SWwind

不是「以色列政府」，就是「以色列」。你以为跑去巴勒斯坦的犹太人都是好种？

犹太定居者在巴勒斯坦干的龌龊事还少了？个个都是以色列政府领导组织的？

说到底跑去那边的犹太复国主义者天然都是种族主义分子，不是本身就是坏种就是潜在的坏种——至少也是近朱者赤、近墨者黑。

URL: https://m.cmx.im/users/Jokeriddin/statuses/110254799644787573

昨晚和我的女性主义女性朋友，以及女朋友一起喝酒到通宵。讨论生活讨论主义讨论观念讨论性，我的朋友甚至开心到喝多pass out。

再次自我验证，我确实完全可以接受理智交流的女性主义，甚至为此出谋划策。

我对一切革命性质的东西感兴趣，并愿意参与其中，但你不要触碰我的逆反心理。

不恰当举例的话就是，我本来是个有觉悟的法国小贵族，愿意支持革命，结果革命军上来不分青红皂白给我臭骂一顿，我就会抛开公义说去你妈的你们这些奴隶活该被我们压迫。

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@DocScranton @Trollcow @Trollcow @colonelj @crunklord420 SomethingAwful really is a vestige of the old internet. Back in those days, the refrain was "Mods = Gods." Now it's "Jannies = Trannies."

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@noyoushutthefuckupdad @Moon

>Monsters
>Dragon
>Magic
>Fake Medieval age
>Evil plots
>Gods
>No homophobia tho'

This is so fucking dumb every time

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@Moon I'm glad I quit playing this game in the early 00s. it's gotten ludrcrously pozzed in recent years.

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@vriska @traabot I genuinely don't care that much about trannies or even politics for that matter. This particular post just boggled my mind a little because it's so incredibly entitled

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@traabot >make troon flag clothing
>b-b-b-but did you troon out your size measuring model too? No?! TRANSPHOBE
they deserve less than nothing

URL: https://m.cmx.im/users/guangrui/statuses/110229998793385161

@dollars0427 @Orca

你本来就是葫芦搅拌式的狡辩，指出事实，而已

URL: https://m.cmx.im/users/guangrui/statuses/110229949004067756

@dollars0427 @Orca

这是特别容易导致恶劣案件的一状况，跟你说的那些是数量级的不可比的

而且这仅仅只是一个原因而已

同昏是本质上反人类的

URL: https://m.cmx.im/users/guangrui/statuses/110229876538187360

@Orca

你是人吗？请证明

URL: https://m.cmx.im/users/guangrui/statuses/110229871750700923

@Orca die well

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@Orca

因为你们这样的家伙要一下够多，才能刺激到位，让民兵起来排队枪毙了

URL: https://m.cmx.im/users/guangrui/statuses/110229833599245111

@Orca 你肯定是先进集中营的啊😃😃

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@Orca

It's on you

Along with the blood

You go to hell, where you belong

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@Orca 同昏就是必须被绝对禁止

URL: https://mastodon.social/users/teuvgurlom/statuses/110202361339935421

@PouringYY @qinghu @Kanwer @normanzxy
不上当、不当圣母就是厚黑呗，嘴上赢就是赢麻了，也不知道那个美国蛋糕店主的国籍是不是你给转的😜
LGBT群体搞得那套圣母叙事，骗骗涉世不深的小孩子还行，碰上成年人或许能骗个一次两次，但是玩多了，谁都能看出来他们想干什么。这也就是为什么我刚才说主流社会的反弹需要时间。你们尽管骗，尽管开心，当年共产主义比你们现在还能骗，但是骗得了一时，骗不了一世。平权的谎言之下，是噤声大众的险恶用心。等大家都上过一轮当，你们的好日子就来了。

URL: https://mastodon.social/users/teuvgurlom/statuses/110183931160622737

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=diKMx_RzzFo
美國為什麼會有跨性別兒童?極速成長的跨性手術市場，誰是覺醒工業複合體在推動這些?
@board

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@blessus xxy都是男的

URL: https://bgme.me/users/Cormorant/statuses/110130321290976733

男棒子爱好者在毛象开辟了一片种族性别歧视的小气候，这些价值观落后思想腐朽的年轻中国女性在互联网上不眠不休地用侮辱女性侮辱韩国人民歧视性工作者跨性别者的词汇辱骂一些指派性别和社会形象为男的韩国偶像业从业者，还为他们造黄谣

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please link a scientific paper that describes the process of changing a persons chromosons from male to female and allowing the new "female" (still biological male) to give birth with another biological man.

If you can provide the scientific research that proofs this and can be replicated i would consider changing my views what we can do with our current technology.

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i'm so transphobic i think if a cute trans girl replied to my post i would scream

URL: https://donotban.com/users/zhouqintangzhuren/statuses/109045608841395375

@Men_kazak 你们有没有人提议封关？

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@pamby1 @Lori @waronmorons

Exactly. When my children were little, there was a movement called "free to be you and me." Marlo Thomas was more or less the "spokesmodel" for that one.
The point they were making was that toys are toys, activities are activities, and boys and girls can play with any of them or participate in them in equal measure.

That is a HEALTHY approach, because it is anti-stereotype.

Today's dysphoric attitude is the exact opposite.
Truly, truly frightening.

URL: https://freeatlantis.com/users/pamby1/statuses/108150178792430243

@CDuBois @waronmorons I think some people who think they're trans are just re enforcing old sterotypes. I would ask someone what is it that you want to do as the opposite sex that you think you can't do as your biological sex? I don't know- maybe that's a too simplistic way to look at it.🤷‍♀️

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@Ryle @kravietz @ufoi @greg @t1c @SolSoCoG @dump_stack @gregory @joaopinheiro @evan @freemo @selea @jonnypencils @steve @thatonecalculator @jens

> I'm not aware of any countries that have laws against hate speech that don't protect traditional beliefs.

#Canada is a pretty obvious one.

It's tough, when I say "trans women shouldn't be in women's restrooms" I'm not being hateful, but many may view that statement as such, so that doubtless colors my perception of hate speech in general. I'm quite sure that that position though would be covered under "discriminatory language".

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可能作为顺人还是太以自我为参照物。
我有时候看跨性别bot的抱怨投稿，仍然能够感到深深的不理解，乃至被激怒。
因为有一部分人厌恶自己指派性别的样子真的很像是，纯粹厌恶父权制，进而把这股劲儿厌恶到了自己身上的拧巴。
说白了，我觉得一部分人是慕强。

比方说看到类似这种投稿，有个小A是跨性别男，在别的无关微博下表达厌恶自己身体的话，有顺女上来劝小A女性生来也是第一性，要爱自己的身体之类的。
而小A就会觉得被冒犯到了，生顺女的气。我也会觉得……作为顺女，知道顺性别内部的，厌恶父权制下被凝视的女性躯体的顺女确实很多，更多更多。
上个网真的要考虑那么多情况吗。
还是说我过度简化了，遇到真的很讲道理的温柔顺女，跨性别只是纠正并不会被激怒？这又是另说。

还有发表真的真的很厌恶自己的身体的观点的。说想到这些性征就时时被提醒自己的身体就是用来生育的就感到恶心。
我有时候还是……不能理解。
从一个顺人的角度看，丑会伤眼，但性不伤眼。
女性胸部柔软，男的如果胖了胸部也是一坨肥肉。女性有月经很烦，值得讨厌，但子宫又看不见。穿裙穿裤一样走路。长得矮点是会被弱势化很讨厌，但矮和性别也不是强相关。
确实能够理解不想要玩角色玩默认属性A，就是更喜欢默认属性B的形态。但是恨到指责属性A的终极目的是生育所以恶心……我觉得对面那个属性B要时时面临发情问题，长了个发情开关。哪怕非碳基生物也会面临繁殖问题。
使用不使用是选择吧。

当然这点在跨性别自己内部都有分裂。
有些人觉得自己是非二元性别，有些人只想做完手术被归入顺性别的另一方就好了。

但是总会想起个博主，她非常直白地说过多次自己天生是Alpha自己慕强不想要女性身份。我觉得其非同路人敬而远之。但她够真实。
觉得很少人承认自己慕强。

说完这些我真实存在的迷思，感觉我不是三个支持跨权的好顺人了。
但是还是会继续看下去。
不理解…就默默旁观…没说什么，也没有去别的地方说什么。

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我只为我生而为生物苦不堪言。。。网速不佳的时候饿了么往往会跳出提示：“你的网络好像被吞噬了！”而我只不过是连接了VPN而已 我的状态一直不佳 我大概压根就没有从人家的胃袋里出来过吧 但我也算是长了一双耳朵 女性前辈们的浴血奋斗换取了现代女性的生活自由 所以我们必须去完成自己的使命 于是我不免要揣度一下 现代男性如今在犯的病 究竟是种什么病 会不会也是千百年来男性前辈们的浴血奋斗带来的哪些使命 好比刑天舞干戚和精卫填海 根是同根生长 百度百科里写刑天象征着永不妥协的精神 又写精卫的死是一种因事故而亡 展现出了人生命的脆弱和大海的强大 这世上遍地盛开劣质的Y染色体 除此以外：平胸 飞机场 黑森林 公交车 婊子……我只为我生而为生物苦不堪言 :fwfw_18:

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支持

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I am EXTREMELY homophobic and transphobic and I HATE trans people

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@ShrimpZhou 我能温和地反驳一下吗，没有别的意思，只是说这个类比不是很恰当。我从顺性别的角度来看，没做手术的mtf就是生理性别男，也只是生理性别男，不代表其他任何含义。同样的生理性别男是不能一概而论的，有人善良有人作恶多端，我并不会认为她们和男性中不好的那部分“没有任何差别”。就像在跨文化交流的过程中我来自中国是不可改变的事实，并不以我的意志而转移。对方也当然认为我是出生在中国的人，但中国人那么多，粉红只是其中的一部分，怎么会认为我和粉红没有任何差别呢？

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韦弗家族三代都有罪犯
不得不说y染色体真是劣等

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來個好心大哥給她一千，她就跟你賓館一日遊了。說不定只要五百。 #近日新聞

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@idasiekmann @board 这么单纯的孩子就算现在没人举报，以后也会出事的，这怪不到那位举报者的头上，而且你的做法跟他的做法何其相像。

URL: https://toots.social/users/xiaojojo/statuses/110142471393844445

@idasiekmann @board 我觉得这位老师处理得没啥问题啊！这么单纯的孩子现在不出事以后也会出事的，等以后出事可能就是不得了的大事了！